Saturday 25 October 2014

PEOPLE WHO SURROUNDS YOU 2.0

A popular adage which says 'show me your friends, i will show you who you are'. I personally believe that our lives are influence by those who are close to us. The good reason why alot of habit, attitudes, behaviors and characters are form through the family. Its start with your friends. It get to a point in my life, i took a review.

Of what?
Dudes i call friend. I exclude those who will make mockery of me or try to relegate me. Instead of those 'Down-graders' i surround my self with 'The Up-graders'. People who will lift, inspire, challenge, push and motivate me to fulfill destiny.

Destiny?
Yes! destiny of course.


Everybody wants to live a successful life. But how? they have to start from here. The people whom they've allow to surround there lives. Its either this people uplift you up, or bring you down. After taking a review, i delete some and got new ones.

The truth is there are few people who could really can help you achieve that vision you have been dying hard for to make a reality. But these few, are scarce like gold. A big thank you to the 'global world' this generation is enjoying; either by reading, watching, listening or socializing with the right and needed people, through a fast channel. We all need Valuable people to surround us. But, how do we get them? that's the question am going to answer. Now, keep reading.

HOW TO GET THEM
After i check, i found only few people who have proven there worth in supporting me. I started first by changing my MINDSET. I start eating books. Yes! i ate them, and the more i eat, the hungrier i become. This is what Jane Austen told me: 

"If a book is well written, i always find it too short." -Jane Austen


#Think About It
 It happens to me too, and to every good reader. The point is, get your heart, Mind and Soul illuminated by books written by people who you believe can add value to your life. Start reading now. Go to some local or international bookshop[you know], get the best one that can be of help to you. Then go look for a place to sit, read and meditate like King David usually do. Start from there.

#Secondly,
Improve your imagination with your visuals. Vision are enhance by imagination. Meanwhile, imagination is a product of the mind. Acquire new visuals. It may be the videos, pictures and images you watch but, one thing must be certain; make sure they are adding value to your life. The very first thing I stop doing is: #watching porn.Why? click HERE.

#Thirdly,
Select what you listen to. Seriously, this affected me then. When i pick up bad friends, they told me what to do. Same way, when you pick up 'good friends' they told you what to do.

"A good friend gives your life direction, self-value and a sense of meaning."

#Lastly, SOCIAL MEDIA
You won't believe how much influence this SM[Social Media] have in our dear lives. The truth is, since its a social world, they have great influence on us. they seems to motivate us to perform in a certain way. A way that is directed by them not us. Take a review of your friends on the SM and remove valueless and helpless beings. They will only draw you back or make you remain stagnant. Am sure you don't want any of the two.

BONUS
Am going to give the names of some great dude that have helped me become the real me.

1. VICTOR PRIDE
http://boldanddetermined.com/


http://boldanddetermined.com/

[This gut guy is really the best dude to surround yourself with. Why? Click on his name, to check his blog.]

 






2. LEWIS HOWES

My Man! I so much love his courage, attitude and CAN-DO Spirit.
lewishowes.com/
Your #no1 Life style entrepreneur. Click his name, to know him more.

 


3. DAVE RAMSEY

The Money Guru. An expert, teacher and Mentor.
With this man, your financial independence is certain. Bet it with me.



Others:
1. Pastor Sam Adeyemi
2. Zig Ziglar
<www.ziglar.com>
 3. Jim Rohn
4. John Maxwel
5. Bishop David Oyedepo, et all.


Untill Next Time
Love Ya!

#Sign: Akinfulubi Gbenga

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