Tuesday 14 October 2014

EFFECT OF THOSE WHO SURROUNDS YOU



A lot of us don’t know this, while few know but do not understand the great importance that is attached to having the right people surround your life. The #big reason is they help to shape us into whom we become.

A place is not as important as the people who dwell there. This is what I mean; a geographical location is highly regarded by people because of the kind of people who dwells there. America for example, is believed to be a great nation not because of its location, but the kind of people who dwell there. The people, automatically gives importance to the geographical area.
The value of a particular place or thing is determined by those who occupy it. The only reason why a land in one place differs from another or more expensive than the other is because of the importance that is attached to those places. When the value increases, the worth increases. And as such, there are imbalances. When the rich dwell in a place / Society; it is called ‘the rich man’s land’. Why? The rich men dwell in that area. So the value of the place increases because those [particular] people determine the value that is place on anything. If a product hit the market, and there is an urgent rush or need for this product, then the value suddenly increases and the worth doubles or triples. It’s the people who determine the value from the onset. Secondly, the caliber of people who go for this product determines the price of the commodity.

In human’s life, same thing occurs. We pick our attitude, character & Behaviour [mostly] from these three (3) agents of socialization. The Family, Pear Group, & the Society. These people surround our dear life, and as well determine the kind of person we are. A child that grew up to be criticize daily, for doing anything reasonable, would grow up to be a ‘Hard Critic.’ That’s the spirit behind those we allow to stay in our life.

In one sentence
“Carefully select those who surrounds your life, they some how determine the person you [will] become.”

Till Next Time
#Sign: Akinfulubi Gbenga



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